How to Not Get Fucked Up In Relationship: Q & A with Daniel at PolyPalooza (Part 3)


Poly Palooza secret weapon“Love is unconditional. Relationship is conditional. This is a really key distinction. Loving someone unconditionally does not mean staying in a particular kind of relationship unconditionally. Okay? So if someone is doing an addiction, or they lie, or they have abusive patterns, or any number of things that don’t meet my criteria to be in a certain kind of relationship, I can still love them unconditionally. Read the rest →

What’s the difference between Free love and Polyamory? Tantra Travel Video from Tamera

Tantra Travel Log: Do you have 5 minutes to hear an illuminating (and controversial) distinction between Free Love and Polyamory? KTamera free love group shotamala Devi shares a VIDEO blog from Peace Research Center: Tamera, Portugal. Where she studies with visionary Dieter Duhm and a community of peace workers, truth seekers and Free lovers! Read the rest →

Day 1: Tantra Travel Video Blog with Kamala Devi and Family!

Here I am at the airport, departing for Istanbul onKamala Devi airport europe a pleasure vacation and bohemian writing retreat through Turkey, Portugal (Tamera), Spain, and Holland (Venwoude.) I invite you to join me in exploring the deep matters of my heart. Watch my new Video Blog where I talk a bit about my relationship to my “Sacred Wound” and wishe you a happy Summer Solstice! Read the rest →

Happy 4th Polyversary to my Beloved girlfriend Roxanne from Kamala Devi!

Dearest Roxanne,

There are 4 directions, 4 sacred11390293_10205328934675781_8027310963169292544_n elements, 4 seasons, and 4 full years that I’ve been passionately in love with you. In numerology, the #4 offers strength and stability, which we have in spades. In fact, if you count both our husbands, the 4 of us make a solid nucleus of an expanding “poly-cule” of lovers. Read the rest →

10 Commandments from PolyPalooza: Best Practices for ethical nonmonogamy or Open Relationship (Part 2)

I am stepping down from the mount, offering the 10 polyamory commandments at Poly Palooza. Last year I actually brought tablets, this year, I brought San Diego’s secret weapon, Daniel to the stage to have a deeper discussion.

Poly 10 commandments

Reid Mihalko: All hail! Read the rest →