Like Puzzle Pieces
like sugar in water, around us.
Salty tears and the smell of blood
have no meaning, except that
which we give them.
And I give them a lot,
–I’m generous, that way.
I cry every day,
and bleed every month,
when my womb melts
from the inside outas a regular reminderthat we create life–It’s just how we’re built.Being by your bodygives my womb permission.Somehow the frequencyof your womanhood resonateslike a tuning fork, in my arms,when you’re there,just breathing.Your hands against my skinmake a certain sound,nobody else can hear–like the taste in my mouthwhen you look at me,or elsewhere.So, I write lyrics to songsthat will never be sungand dance with myselfwhen you are not here.The ache in my jointshints at our years togetherand screams:“I want to grow old with you.”Woman, I want to peel offthe veils that cloak realityso we can see the contrastbetween now and eternity.I’m done playing hide and seekwith love, the truth, and god.You have tagged me inand together we’re teamed,like a double negativethat makes everything
positive.When I cry, or bleed, now,You may–or may not–join me,but I am not alone.We are reconciling opposites.Like puzzle pieces, that don’tactually fit, but leave a holein the picture, so we canremember it’s an illusion. Read the rest →
I know it’s not “politically correct” to be jealous when your Polyamorous. But I’ll admit…I’m downright envious of New York’s first polyamory apartment complex for beating us to the punch. My lovers and I have been visioning, talking, and even doing sex magic to manifest a polyamory palace where we can all live together. Read the rest →
Dear Gentle Reader,
During the long hot days of summertime, most thoughts melt like ripe watermelon and sweet corn in my mouth with a lingering after-taste. Some fleeting insights strike me like unexpected lightning in a flash flood. I’ve made it a practice to capture them like fire flies and pin them on Facebook. Read the rest →
Enjoy this video from the recent Conscious Sexuality and Relationship Online Conference and find out: What does polyamory have to do with sacred sexuality?
This is a one-of-a-kind online event that took a fresh and inspiring approach to relationship and sexuality that unites science, psychology, spirituality, and cutting-edge insights. Read the rest →
Since Polyamory is an emergent alternative subculture, we have to create our own memes! We had fun creating these. Polyamory humor is intended to help us laugh at ourselves. Hope you don’t take them too seriously.
A meme by the way, is “an idea, behavior, or style that spreads from person to person within a culture.” A meme acts as a unit for carrying cultural ideas, symbols, or practices that can be transmitted from one mind to another through writing, speech, gestures, rituals, or other imitable phenomena with a mimicked theme. Read the rest →
Enjoy our Top 10 list of Polyamory Jokes. Meet the most Poly man in the world!
10. When he goes to the zoo, the bonobo apes watch him.
9. He is so honest, that when he masterbates with his right hand, he tells his left. Read the rest →
Good News! Showtime has just announced that both Season 1 and 2 of the hit docu-series Polyamory: Married & Dating will continue to be available On Demand for another full year, until April 2015!
So if you missed any episodes, or just want to see them again, grab this opportunity. Read the rest →
It’s not that I like “hate mail” per se, but not everyone agrees with my lifestyle or opinions. While this is fine, and I usually simply embrace the diversity and/or ignorance that I receive as a comment, I recently received a Facebook comment that was intriguing enough to share with my friends. Read the rest →
Polyamory and pole dancing are two things that my girlfriend Roxanne is passionate about. During a regular Friday lovemaking date, I asked her “What are the similarities between Polyamory and Pole Dancing?” For us, lovemaking takes many forms (naked sunbathing, massage, Japanese rope bondage, threesomes, fantasy role play, processing,) but this is the first time that our creative chemistry produced a blog post. Read the rest →
Reid Mihalko and I created a DVD that is called Earning Your Black Belt in Polyamory: 10 Secret Exercises for Relationship Mastery by Top Ethical Non-Monogamous Ninjas, which is available for immediate download in our Store.
But then we started joking around and ended up with this Ninja Jokes reel which I’m sharing with you for free right here. Read the rest →