We’re Married, Dating and Practicing Polyamory

About Kamala Devi, Sex & Relationship Coach, Author and Activist

Kamala Devi Polyamory

Professional Bio: Kamala Devi is a nationally- recognized speaker, author, mentor and polyamory activist who created the Beyond Monogamy program to help open-minded people liberate their love lives. She has been successfully navigating open relationships for more than 20 years, in an open marriage for 12 years, and is the mother of a 7-year-old boy.

Her family stars in Showtime’s hit docu-series, Polyamory: Married and Dating. Kamala Devi has recently been featured on Ricki Lake, Dr. Drew, Tyra Banks and the award-winning documentary Sex Magic. Kamala Devi is the founder of San Diego Tantra Theater and Poly-Palooza. Her mission is to awaken healers, teachers and visionaries around the globe to becoming love leaders.  Read more at http://www.KamalaDevi.com. Personal bio with hobbies is Listed Below. 

To Read 25 Things You Probably Don’t Know About The San Diego Polyamory Family. Click on Photos.

Kamala Devi Polyamory Married and Dating Showtime star Michael McClure (25 things about) Jennifer Gold (25 things about)

Tahl Gruer (25 things about) Roxanne DePalma (25 things about) Devin (25 things about)

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Kamala Devi’s Personal Bio:

Kamala Devi is a bisexual Latin woman of Jewish descent who was raised between conservative Orange County and a ranch in Mexico. Throughout college, she produced a handful of feminist-themed plays and was a gay and lesbian activist. She founded the first bisexual and lesbian women’s discussion group at her university.

Kamala Devi on RocksBefore she even heard the word polyamory, her college girlfriend pointed out that she was in love with a male yoga teacher and she began dating them both… After graduation, she moved to a drumming commune in Hawaii where she directed the lesbian, gay, transgender and bisexual Pride festival of Honolulu in 1997. She met a professional dominatrix who introduced her to the world of kink.

After a spontaneous sexual awakening on the islands, she began backpacking and studying yoga throughout Europe, Southeast Asia, and China. When she returned to California, she met her life partner, Michael, at a Valentine’s puja in San Diego.

Together they took a tantric pilgrimage to South India to study goddess worship from a guru who channels Kali. The 2004 Sumatran Tsunami struck the very beaches where they were at the exact moment their airplane lifted off. This event inspired Kamala Devi’s first novel, Don’t Drink the Punch: An Adventure in Tantra.

When pregnant, they bought a beach house that Michael converted into an eco-friendly temple where they home-birthed their son Devin Echo McClure. He is now an 8 year old bilingual scientist who loves to sail and surf. Devin is proud to be raised in a polyamorous family with a variety of live-in lovers who were featured on Showtime’s docu-series, Polyamory: Married and Dating which ran for 2 seasons.

Kamala Devi’s primary girlfriend is Roxanne, who is co-author of the erotic novel, 52 Fridays with My Bitch. Together, they are part of a circle of about a dozen lovers who are transparent about everything, this group is affectionately called the superpod.

Kamala Devi is the founder of both TantraPalooza and PolyPalooza, which are annual festivals for liberated lovers. She also created and directs Tantra Theater, a collective of artists, teachers and healers who offer live performance art to heal sexual guilt and shame.

She is co-author of Sacred Sexual Healing with Baba Dez and is featured in his award-winning documentary, Sex Magic. She has made several instructional DVDs including Earning your BLACKBELT in Relationship with Reid Mihalko.

Today, Kamala Devi is a highly-visible spokesperson and has facilitated over a thousand sex-positive events in the last 20 years. Kamala Devi has also appeared on the Tyra Banks Show, Discovery Channel, Morning Show Live, Inside Edition, and MTV’s True Life, to name a few. Her future vision is to create a retreat center so people from all over the world can liberate their love lives. Kamala Devi is devoted to helping people awaken their sexuality ethically, because she feels humanity’s realization their true creative potential is necessary for the evolution of the planet.  She is especially interested in training healers, teachers and visionaries so they can become Love Leaders around the world.  


Kamala Devi takes pleasure in nature, massage, vegan foods, snuggling, dance, theater and performance art. Her ultimate turn-on is penetrating conversation. Kamala Devi is a natural muse and uses her body as a doorway to enlightenment. She knows how to use her mouth and words to stimulate and heal people. She is also a deep listener, and loves silence, touch and laughter. For free resources on how to become a better lover go to: KamalaDevi.com

About Michael McClure, Polyamory Activist

Michael McClure Polyamory Married or Dating star San Diego pod

Michael McClure is a stand-up comedian, musician, actor and a co-founder of Tantra Theater.  He has over 12 years of training in Tantra and 15 years practicing polyamory. He is a spokesman for honesty, sex positive communication and safe sex. A lifetime surfer and athlete, he leads men’s groups and can be found at http://www.EthicalStud.com.

In addition to starring in Showtime’s Polyamory: Married and Dating, he has appeared on Dr. Drew, Ricki Lake, the Tyra Banks Show, Discovery Channel, Inside Edition and other international television productions. His environmental work has reduced global warming emissions by hundreds of tons using commercial lighting technologies; and his ecological home has been featured on the GreenBuilt Tour. Michael is married to Kamala Devi and has about a dozen lovers and a 5-year-old son who he spends a lot of time surfing and swimming with. Video clips of his performance art can be found at www.TantraTheater.TV and his stand-up comedy can be found at www.PolyamoryMichael.com.

Besides starring in the new Showtime Docu-series called Polyamory: Married and Dating,  here are 25 things you didn’t know about the San Diego Cast.

Kamala Devi also loves co-teaching with the following teachers:

Charles Muir, Reid Mihalko, Daniel S., Scott Catamas, Shawn Roop, Adam Paulman, Baba Dez, Mare Simone, Triambika, and more. Bios coming soon.